BDSM Problems

When all the femdom porn is so obviously aimed at dudes.

Being a woman submissive who enjoys force and being degraded but also finds some of those same things triggering her mild feminist frustrations.

When you’re too dominant to accept the terms of submission and tumblr tells you you have to anyway.

New DKNY pale yellow fancy-gorgeous bedding, meet bloodplay, and candle wax, and anything used in chemical play, and….

Week one, bloodstains already.

Your workmates joking about the “hickey” on your throat while it is actually a mark from excessive choking.

When vanillas manage to find their way into a play party then start taking pictures and interrupting scenes. Security doesn’t kick them out.

When you’re comforting your sub after a particularly harsh whipping, and secretly like this part better than the whipping itself.

whenever Someone says ‘I’ve got you pegged’ or ‘They got pegged wrong’ and all you can picture is strap-on sex. :/

Your mom finds your riding crop, corset, collar, and cuffs. She then proceeds to follow you around making whip sounds.

The stylist puts the cape around your neck and asks if it is too tight. You say, no I like being tied tight.