October 2012
9 posts
BDSM Problem #411
When all the femdom porn is so obviously aimed at dudes.
BDSM Problem #410
Being a woman submissive who enjoys force and being degraded but also finds some of those same things triggering her mild feminist frustrations.
BDSM Problem #409
When you’re too dominant to accept the terms of submission and tumblr tells you you have to anyway.
BDSM Problem #408
New DKNY pale yellow fancy-gorgeous bedding, meet bloodplay, and candle wax, and anything used in chemical play, and….
Week one, bloodstains already.
BDSM Problem #407
Your workmates joking about the “hickey” on your throat while it is actually a mark from excessive choking.
BDSM Problem #406
When vanillas manage to find their way into a play party then start taking pictures and interrupting scenes. Security doesn’t kick them out.
BDSM Problem #405
When you’re comforting your sub after a particularly harsh whipping, and secretly like this part better than the whipping itself.
bdsm Problem #404
whenever Someone says ‘I’ve got you pegged’ or ‘They got pegged wrong’ and all you can picture is strap-on sex. :/
BDSM Problem #403
Your mom finds your riding crop, corset, collar, and cuffs. She then proceeds to follow you around making whip sounds.
September 2012
9 posts
BDSM Problem #402
The stylist puts the cape around your neck and asks if it is too tight. You say, no I like being tied tight.
Good morning!
princessrichgirl:
I have TWO new stories on Literotica.
1. Anna Comnena and the Crusader: A story (with more chapters coming soon!) about the seduction of the Byzantine princess by Crusader Bohemond of Taranto.
2. A Liaison With the Divine: 14th Century Christian Mystic Julian of Norwich recounts a heavenly erotic encounter.
Please comment and vote! Enjoy!
xoxo
Princess
My friend...
BDSM Problem #401
Searching “domination” and getting results for sports and video games instead of what you really want.
BDSM Problem #400
when even close friends don’t understand why you like dominating because you’re female…
BDSM Problem #399
When your 15 month son pulls the cane out from under the bed in front of your brother-in-law.
BDSM Problem #398
Offered a lower rate for a professional Dom session because you are a poor college student. Have no way to get there because you are too poor to afford a car.
Anoni, please and thank you.
BDSM Problem #397
When you have to go back to check in your collar because air port security gets mad about the spikes.
BDSM Problem #396
When you’re in line with your mom at cinnabon and some creepy guy comes up to you insisting that he knows you on fetlife.
My apologies for not updating recently. I have a lot of posts which I need to make ready to go, but I’ve just gotten back to school and it seems everything except for my sex life has been preoccupying me :(
August 2012
25 posts
BDSM Problem #395
Having ceilings that aren’t enough so the throw of a whip knocks down the chandelier instead of hitting your bottom’s bum.
BDSM Problem #394
When everyone assumes femdom and dominatrix are exactly the same thing.
BDSM Problem #393
When you can’t watch Disney movies without finding D/s pairs and playing “find-the-kink” with everyone onscreen.
BDSM Problem #392
Dress conservatively at hillel events because of bruises, and everybody thinks you’ve become more religious.
BDSM Problem #391
Being a submissive who loves having whipping marks but having a body that won’t bruise without extreme, unbearable violence. :(
BDSM Problem #390
Nipples being too sore from an earlier nipple torture session to endure more than a simple tongue lathing during non-session sex.
BDSM Problem #389
Trying to find a balance of healthy pain and submission without regressing into former self-destructive tendencies. :/
BDSM Problem #388
too scared to find a nice Dom on Fetlife, but scared about finding a great guy freaked out by your kink on eharmony
BDSM Problem #387
Trying out your new butt plug by wearing it to the grocery store and getting stuck in the slowest. checkout. ever.
BDSM Problem #386
When a door slams itself shut and hits you in the butt and you automatically “mmm” to yourself and people nearby wonder what you’re mmm-ing at.
BDSM Problem #385
When both you and your partner live with parents and neither of you will be able to move out so soon.
BDSM Problem #384
Being a feminist but also wanting to be humiliated and subservient.
BDSM Problem #383
When you’re dying for a bite, and your vanilla boyfriend can’t produce more than a moderate nibble. In the same time he claims that he’s “totally into it”.
BDSM Problem #382
When your feminist friends are discussing how sick and oppressive BDSM is towards women, and you can’t argue back because you’re too angry.
BDSM Problem #381
When the zipline instructor on a family vacation asks if you’ve worn a harness before and wanting to reply, “define ‘harness’…”
BDSM Problem #380
Having a doctor’s appointment while there are still hickeys all over your chest.
BDSM Problem #379
Collar tan-lines… which are okay unless you ever have to take said collar off.
BDSM Problem #378
People who can’t tell the difference between leather and latex.
BDSM Problem #377
Your mom catching you admiring a bundle of rope when you’re helping her move.
BDSM Problem #376
That awkward moment when someone makes an “S/M joke”, and you’re not sure whether or not your nervous giggles benefit in making you look like an innocent vanilla or just make you incredibly look guilty.
BDSM Problem #375
When someone jokingly says spank you instead of thank you, and you mumble ‘yes please’ a little too loudly.
BDSM Problem #374
Getting a little turned on every time you see the “Submit” link on Tumblr
BDSM Problem #373
Going through the BDSM tag on Tumblr and getting turned off by all of the daddy-play posts.
BDSM Problem #372
When you beg a sadist to punish you.
BDSM Problem #371?
subs who top from the bottom!!!
July 2012
33 posts
BDSM Problem #370
being ignored by your master when all you want is to talk to him and he just won’t bite no matter what you do
BDSM Problem #369
When your Mother (who knows nothing of your kink) calls you to tell you of this awesome new book she started reading.
#50ShadesOfGrey
BDSM Problem #368
Open-mouth gags that are far too small for anything to fit through.
BDSM Problem #367
The only time you request “no whip” is when you’re getting coffee at Starbucks, while letting out a silent laugh at the situation after the barista asks which you prefer.
BDSM Problem #366
Your Mother sees a “hickey” on your neck which is really a healing bruise and jokingly says “Tell him not to be so rough” and you and your best friend laugh…far too loudly.
BDSM Problem #365
Halloween - the one day a year you can wear your fetishy clothing on the street without scaring the vanillas.
BDSM Problem #364
When you wish your mom a, “Happy father’s day!” in thanks for her being both parents your entire life, and she replies with, “Good to know you won’t be looking for a daddy figure in your relationships!”
